What’s the most powerful human character trait?

November 27th, 2007 by Abe Kass

I have been intimately involved in the lives of many people for about twenty-years. I have tried to help others with:

• Depression
• Anxiety
• Out-of-control anger
• Relationship breakdown
• Self-destructive behavior
• and low self-esteem

It is obvious to me why must people suffer. I am including myself. When I am not happy, I know what I am doing to myself that is making me feel the way I do.

Many people find the means to turn around their misery and replace it with peace and happiness. But some don’t. Here’s why . . .

FREE WILL is the most powerful human character trait. I have learned to humble myself to this fact of life. If an individual is set on walking off a cliff—he or she can’t be stopped. Not by a family therapist, not by a police officer, not by a good samaritan, not by a loving family member. NOTHING CAN OVERPOWER FREE WILL. This is life. Accept it.

For me this is often a difficult “pill” to swallow—but I must. Otherwise I would be dragged down by the folly of others. We all must learn when to let go, and then do so.

“Walking off a cliff” could be:

• Substance abuse
• Infidelity
• Destructive sexual behaviors
• Raging at others
• Dishonesty
• Violent behavior
• Excessive self-love that blinds to the feelings of others
• and more

Even though I am a paid professional that has dedicated my life to assisting others upgrade theirs, we are all the same. Each of us has a responsibility to help those we know live a more happy and healthy life.

Make the effort. Let’s contribute to another’s wellbeing. If he or she is helped, celebrate. If not, so be it. You tried and did your best. Regardless of the outcome, you are a better person for your efforts. And this is important to remember!

Some people don’t feel capable of guiding others. Actually we all have what it takes to be a leader and give “good” to others. If you don’t feel your own strength, I have a lesson to help you: Strong Self-esteem — like yourself now and forever. Live with your personal-power.
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Regards to you and your family,
Abe

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Your #1 fear WILL surprise you!

October 9th, 2007 by Abe Kass

Most people think the #1 fear is of failure. But they are wrong. It’s something much more sinister than that!

So If Failure Is Not The Biggest Fear
– Then What Is?

Answer: The fear of CHANGE.

Let Me Explain . . .

Fact: Take a caged bird into its natural habitat and open the door. What happens? Not sure. I’ll tell you. It freezes.

Fact: When you awake in the morning, what is the most comforting thing you do? Answer: The same thing you did the day before . . . and the day before that. You get the picture. You resist change – we all do!

At heart we are like caged animals. We artificially bind ourselves to our past preventing an even better future. Why? Because we fear “change”-even when it is for the better.

But It Doesn’t Have To Be That Way.

Standup to the fear of change and free yourself. Make each day more successful than the day past.

Here’s how:
1. Express in words and deed your love for each family member.
2. Note what will make this day great – and do it.
3. Do something kind for an absolute strange.

Embrace your power to “change” and be all you can. The rewards are many:

1. Others will love you (and help you succeed).
2. You will feel good about yourself.
3. You will value your life.

Kind regards,

Abe

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