Banish Loneliness in Three Easy Steps or What’s Wrong With Social Networking Sites

We all feel lonely at times. You may feel lonely because simply you are alone. You may feel lonely because you can’t seem to connect with the important people in your life. Or you may feel lonely for both the above reasons.

Perhaps this is one of the reasons “social networking sites” are currently so popular – it’s an easy way to connect with others. The downside is that these connections are superficial and lack genuine intimacy.

Here is a sure way to connect to new or old individuals in your life. I call it the One Two Three – Be Close to Me technique. Here are the 3 steps:

1. Ask a question that cannot be answered with a “yes” or “no.”
2. Summarize the answer you hear. Don’t change anything even if you don’t like what the speaker says.
3. Repeat step #1 and #2 for a few minutes.

Doing the “One Two Three – Be Close to Me” technique makes the person answering your questions feel close to you. And if he or she returns the favor – this will come pretty close to heaven on earth. Being KNOWN is a very satisfying intimacy.

Regards,
Abe
www.WisdomScientific.com